Well it is so ironical that we can predict same message throughout our life from one simple incident from the past. Like father teaching his daughter how to ride a bicycle...
I still remember that day when my dad bought me a bicycle, I was happy, I was amazed. At that time the only priority was to learn how to ride it... dad got stoppers fixed in my cycle and told me to ride. I was hell scared. I told dad to hold me from behind so that i do not fall. He obliged. I was happy riding it safely and excited about riding it as fast as i can... then. After few days dad came and told me to remove one stopper, i was scared again, he again held me from behind. I was happy riding fast again... i learnt how to ride with one stopper and started enjoying it. Then after few days dad again came and told me to ride without stopper... i was so scared that i remembered my first day of riding with stoppers. Dad again held me from behind and i started riding again and this time i wanted to ride faster and faster but dad was not able to run that fast so without telling me he left me from behind and without even realising that i am riding alone i rode faster and faster, then when i looked back with a smiling face i realised it was me who was riding alone and dad was standing there watching his daughter riding with a smiling face.
This was so similar with the instances that came in my life and every time before taking one step forward I remembered of this time.
At that time i didn't realise, dad did all that intentionally to let me explore and learn.
Now when I had crossed each and every stage I realised what my dad wanted to say at that time...
Is it not same when dad dropped me for the first time to the school gate and i was scared and crying...at time also he was saying the same thing " GO daughter explore your world, its new life and it's waiting you"?
Is it not same when dad dropped me at the college gate with a smiling face and i was scared...at that time also he was saying the same thing " GO daughter explore your world, its new life and it's waiting you"?
Is it not same when after marriage dad gave hand in the guys hand and i was scared...at that time also he was saying the same thing " GO daughter explore your world, its new life and it's waiting for you”?
How ironical it is. One instance gave meaning to every step of the life's ladder that i climbed...
Well first of all I think the thought is really amazing and so true.
ReplyDelete"Irony/Ironical"may not be the right word that describes your experiences here."Deja Vu"perhaps with a twist where the situation is new but the message being conveyed you feel is exactly the same and so are the actors(you & Dad) in the whole scene.
Keep the thoughts coming.